Feminists bully, India Times succumbs!

India Times ran an informative poster campaign about men’s issues on International Men’s Day, 19th November, 2015.

Feminists have exposed their intolerance for any discussion about men’s issues and the celebration of International Men’s Day. They bullied India Times into retracting the article from their website and forced them to issue an apology. Here’s the apology note by India Times:

Ironically, India Times only recently updated its cover photo to one which says, “Not afraid”.

Of course you are, India Times! You are just plain afraid!

Thanks to the internet and social media though…Truth can be deleted from a website, but cannot be completely erased!

Thanks to https://legalfighter.wordpress.com/2015/11/22/indiatimes-bows-down-before-feminists/#comment-3258 for saving, reproducing the posters and making them available for download.

Thanks to Uma Challa,
Reference : https://uchalla.wordpress.com/2015/11/23/feminists-bully-india-times-succumbs/

 

Reply To @indiatimes article

My personal reply to all men who are still having misandrists mindset, many felt bad that @indiatimes shown reality to world by sharing article on occasion of International of Men’s Day & clearly told #LawsAgainstMen.

Many had hick up (Hichki in pure Hindi) as “Truth is bitter” (Sach kadawa hota hai). Many commented on article saying statistics are wrong, but did same people ever bothered to comment & asked the reality of statistics portrayed on article which spreads #FakeWomenEmpowerment. Single article on crimes on woman, people ready to take candle in hand & start roaming around the city. But same candle not found when crimes on Men. Can you justify the behavior of every individual?

Statistical data & surveys done for crimes on women, can anybody justify & share real truth? In today’s world, when gross law misuse reached its peak talking about same is became crime. People who commented on @indiatimes article can they justify? Whether use or misuse?

Do you know “19th November” is “International Men’s Day”? No, because you were busy & working on Toilet, I mean “Toilet day”.

Without taking your much time, feels happy to grab your attention to give clear understanding.

Need for Men’s Rights | Amit Deshpande | TEDxJuhu

 

Men – The forgotten gender | Deepika Bhardwaj | TEDxIIFTDelhi

 

Almost every Indian husband is subjected to Domestic Violence

 

Indian Men’s Rights movement needs more women activists

 

Tedx: Need for Men’s Rights

 

RTI reveals important information about dowry harassment cases

 

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Fun time with 498a…

This is my story who is falsely accused in 498a case by my bitter-half as I was not following words coming out from my wife & her parents mouth, I didn’t realize if I don’t obey the orders from bitter half & her parents I will be gifted with 498a package. For people who are not aware of 498a law, 498a is law which was established to save women’s from Dowry Harassment by India. If we really look around compare to use of 498a Law wide misuse is happening. 498a became weapon for Women’s to harass & torture husband & his family. Same law or NCW support one Daughter-in-law as woman, but Mother & sister of Husband is not considered as woman, I don’t know what to say about this? Anyway it’s all Indian males fate to face & fight against this legal terrorism. Day by day 498a case rate & misuse is increasing rapidly, Males in India are finding easy option to avoid this 498a & that’s nothing but suicide. Every 10 mints 1 Indian married male is going for suicide. Don’t forget to think about 498a & its wide misuse, let’s come out of this & have fun some fun time with 498 J

It was a nice cloudy day, I was in a jolly mood. I entered office, signed in like any other normal day. I entered my cube and was checking mails, when as  usual my friends called me for coffee. We were chatting in cafeteria when the office boy came into the cafeteria searching for me.

He said few people are waiting for me in Atlas conf. room.  I asked who it was but he was not aware of it. He said they came from some social organization. I was surprised to hear that news. Now it was time for me to check out who those people were. Having many doubts in mind I was moving towards the room.

I was just entering the conference room, when the person standing outside the conf room asked my name.

As I entered the room, person standing outside checked the list & suddenly shouted 498 case. I was surprised to hear 498 case, lot of thoughts were coming in mind. How come suddenly this happened? I didn’t expect it will happen so soon.

Generally my other room partner’s avoid seeing one of my roommates face in the morning, many times they have informed me not to see him in the morningJ. This morning when I woke up he wish me “Good Morning” suddenly I remembered all this. I was cursing myself because I saw him in the morning. Then I was just thinking what to do now? How to inform my dad? How to have conversation with lawyer? What to reply if these guys ask any questions?

Three men were sitting inside the conf room, None were in uniform but physically all were looking like Police Men. One of them stared at me like angry bull ready to hit me, other person didn’t even bother to look at me as he was sorting out papers but one person welcomed me when I moved towards table.

Good Morning Sir!!!

I was surprised to hear that, and then he offered me a chair. I was about to sit, he mumbled 498 case paper’s. He got those papers in hand & he said “Sir, first of all we are thankful to you for coming forward & giving us your helping hands.” I thought like this normal routine 498a primary phase, instead of calling me to Police station they have come here to get the details & later Charge sheet with other process. I felt like as I didn’t have word neither with my dad nor my lawyer so it’s better to behave like I’m co-operating them but not disclosing any facts what ‘s plan of action.

Person who was sorting out papers gave 2 pages to the person who was talking to me.

Oh great!!! 498 saraswati case…

Again I got doubts 498a filled by wife is fine but my wife’s name is not saraswati.

He asked “since how long you are here, sir!!!”

Since one year.

Since how long you are helping to others.

This question was very much confusing…

He said “Because of few people like you we are surviving & we are able to deliver our services”.

I thought this is another way of asking for money & punching on my face without raising hands.

He was keep talking & asking questions then I wanted to get rid of this.

So I asked who is saraswati? I don’t even know her. Then why & how she filled case?

Hearing this person was confused. Seeing his face I felt like I asked him wrong question which he was not at all expecting from me.

He said “sir, you forgot!!!”

Yes, sir!!! It’s our fault. When you provide money we don’t give any sort details that whom you are going to help. Actually we are also not aware who is seeking help so we also cant share any details just like that.

I felt like hitting that guy or just moving out of the room…

He started “Sir actually during last July time frame you have donated money, rite?”

I could not recollect which month but yes last year I have donated money…

Yes Sir, that money we utilized towards kids education & end of July or August only we will come to know which all students needs money for their education. So we didn’t inform in advance.

He gave me 2 pages & he said Kid is from Saraswati Vidya Mandir & scored 498 out of 600 J.

I got my answer who is saraswati & why she filled 498 J

I realized 498a is nothing it is just matter of tension & stress.

 If you falsely implicated in 498a cases then don’t worry at all as no one can touch you. If you suspect 498a on you then start increasing your legal knowledge, there are many laws or ways just because you are not aware you need to run around & suffer like anything. Just because you are not aware of process including legal practitioners all will try to extort money from you & your bitter half will be enjoying seeing the trouble you are facing. So be brave stand up & get ready to fight against all these feminized & biased laws…..

So guys enjoy each & every moment of your life at full extent, try to find out Happy moments to keep you cheerful & happy…….

What amount to cruelty against husband?

Though it is the duty of the court to decide the case based on facts and circumstances but what amount to cruelty is an important aspect as misuse of Laws by the wife against husband in society is growing day by day.

Most apparently some Indian Urban Educated Women have turned the tables and are using these laws as weapon to unleash personal vendetta on their husbands and innocent relatives.

There are certain grounds on which cruelty against husband can be filed:- Misuse of Dowry Laws, Domestic Violence Act  by wife against husband and his parents through lodging false complaints.

 Desertion by wife which means wife deliberately intending for separation to bring cohabitation permanently to an end.  But it’s very difficult for husband to prove same as laws are completely female supportive & Gender Biased. Most of the cases are Desertion by wife in which wife simply refuse to join husband sitting at her parents place & her parents supports her because they knows though she earn or not she will survive happily by extorting money legally from her husband getting support from multiple cases.

Adultery by wife means wife having s*xual relationship with some other person during the lifetime of marriage and there must be strict law to punish wife who has committed adultery. There are laws which supports female to stay away & extort money from husband on the basis of Adultery by Husband but there is not a single crpc which supports husband to catch hold of wife under Adultery. Though wife is having multiple relation to get divorce on the basis of Adultery husband have to show 100’s proof’s but same allegation if wife do against husband Police & Women NGO’s run behind husband to harass husband without asking any clarification or justification or any proofs for same from Wife.

Wife opting out for second marriage without applying for the divorce proceedings. Threatening to leave husbands home and threat to commit suicide by the wife. Abusing and accusing husband by way of insulting in presence of in-laws and in some cases wife abusing husband in front of office staff members.

Wife refusing to have s*x with husband without any sufficient reasons which can be considered as a ground of cruelty. Lowering reputation of the husband by using derogatory words in presence of family members and elders. Lodging FIR against husband and in-laws which has later proved as false report. Conduct and misbehavior of the wife against husband i.e. pressuring husband to leave his home, insisting for the separate residence, mental torture and disrespectful behavior towards husband and in-laws as well. Some other grounds of cruelty i.e. mental disorder and unsoundness of wife, infertility  of wife, illicit relationship of wife with some other person and Wife suffering from the filarial. Extra-marital affairs of wife can also be a ground of cruelty against the husband.

Initiating criminal proceedings against husband and parents of husband with Mala-fide intention by the wife.

CASE LAWS: situations in Hindu marriage where a wife was held as cruel to the husband and the Hindu divorce law was applied by the Supreme Court:

• Mrs. Deepalakshmi Saehia Zingade v/s Sachi Rameshrao Zingade (AIR 2010 Bom 16) In this case petitioner/wife filed a false case against her husband on the ground of Husband Having Girl Friend which is proved as false in a court of law so it can be considered as cruelty against husband.
• Anil Bharadwaj v Nimlesh Bharadwaj (AIR 1987 Del 111) According to this case a wife who refuses to have s*xual intercourse with the husband without giving any reason was proved as sufficient ground which amounts to cruelty against husband.
• Kalpana v. Surendranath (AIR 1985 All 253) According to this case it has been observed that where a wife who refuses to prepare tea for the husbands friends was declared by the court as cruelty to husband. Though the amendments introduced in the penal code are with the laudable object of eradicating the evil of Dowry, such provisions cannot be allowed to be misused by the parents and the relatives of a psychopath wife who may have chosen to end her life for reason which may be many other than cruelty.

The glaring reality cannot be ignored that the ugly trend of false implications in view to harass and blackmail an innocent spouse and his relatives, i.e. fast emerging. A strict law need to be passed by the parliament for saving the institution of marriage and to punish those women who are trying to misguide the court by filing false reports just to make the life of men miserable and justice should not only be done but manifestly and undoubtedly be seen to be done.

If you feel this article really useful & spreading awareness in society, I request/urge you to sign following petition & raise your voice with us who are victim of false or fabricated cases by their wife & in-laws.

Kindly take initiative & circulate it as much as possible. Thanks in advance for your co-operation.

http://www.change.org/petitions/pre-marital-inherited-property-is-not-marital-property-hence-must-not-be-divided-during-divorce

https://www.change.org/petitions/roll-back-irbm-roll-back-irbm-already-indian-men-are-facing-biased-laws

http://www.change.org/en-GB/petitions/save-indian-marriages-stop-the-law-on-marriage-amendment-bill-from-gifting-all-male-property-to-females?utm_campaign=signature_receipt&utm_medium=email&utm_source=share_petition

http://www.change.org/petitions/manmohan-singh-prime-minister-of-india-make-gender-neutral-rape-law-to-punish-for-male-rape#

martyers of marriage

Married Indian Males are getting treated as slaves in the society. Looks like this legal terrorism will not end unless & until it will completely demolish or remove the marriage concept from India. Daily basis there are so many false cases filled against the Indian males & his family for the greed of money & handy Family-laws which blindly supports women without justifying the allegations made by her.

Married Indian male don’t have a basic Human Right to enjoy freedom & his life. If husband don’t dance on wife’s tune he is not good husband, he becomes criminal once wife files False FIR. Husband can never become good father as Child custody is always awarded to Mother. Though mother staying in adultery child need to accompany her, Husband can give better future & values to the kid in the society. Just because he is male he never get custody of kid.

The basic problem here Handy laws, easy access to file false FIR against husband. Wife Listens to own parents but hate to listen her in-laws or husband. Lot of interference by Wife’s parents especially Mother who wrongly guides daughter, Father who listened to his wife & making his Son in law to follow his daughter.

There is not one or the other there are so many cases where because of wife’s parents & wife filling false cases men’s are losing their lives. Mental & physical harassment caused by in-laws & wife, Gender Biased laws not giving any option to Indian males either spoil your life taking rounds or Court, finish your life or bend down & get extorted legally by your in-laws & wife.

How many people remember Delhi women, who was gang-raped, died & against this act candle march & so many drama happened including government passed anti-rape laws. But do you remember

Bangalore Techie Manoj Kumar who ended his life because of his mother-in-law & wife. http://malesarenotsafeinindia.blogspot.in/2013/04/one-more-innocent-man-dies-because-of.html

A 30-year-old man, Pushkar Singh, committed suicide by hanging himself from a ceiling fan at his home in Jankipuram area of Vikas Nagar, on Wednesday. http://malesarenotsafeinindia.blogspot.in/2013/05/false-dowry-case-man-kills-self.html

KANPUR: A 24-year-old youth allegedly hanged himself to death late on Monday night in Panki police circle. He was identified as Virendra Kumar son of AsahrfiLal and a resident of Ratanpur area. http://malesarenotsafeinindia.blogspot.in/2013/05/youth-ends-life-after-wife-refuses-to.html

Parents ruining Marriages http://malesarenotsafeinindia.blogspot.in/2013/02/parents-ruining-marriages.html

Law for Wife or Punishment to Husband http://malesarenotsafeinindia.blogspot.in/2013/04/law-for-wife-or-punishment-to-husband.html

Hindu Marriage Act is a home-breaker: SC http://malesarenotsafeinindia.blogspot.in/2013/04/hindu-marriage-act-is-home-breaker-sc.html

Unless you don’t get education, you can’t educate anyone so try to understand is this Legal Terrorism?

Violence is happening against Men or Women? Still How many mothers & sisters are need to cry for losing their Son or brother?

Male’s are not safe in public place

I’m taking this opportunity to explain “How Feminism is troubling normal peson in public?”

Last weekend I was travelling from Hyderabad to Bangalore due to some work, I was in hurry to get ticket on same day I need to travel. Damn sure our IRCTC will not give any help so started browsing multiple travel sites to get at least single seat if it’s near to driver that was also fine for me.

It was my luck I got seat reserved in one of the Travels (Don’t want to disclose the Travels name but for sure I will never ever take their services in future). There was incident which made me panic & at some extent it made me to lose my patience as well.

Bus was AC sleeper & old model which will have 2 seats joined together & single seat at other side separated by walking passage.

Out of double seat one seat was occupied by male (Raja) age around 30-35, he boarded at the same pickup point where I. After 2 pickup points crossed, almost last pick up point Queen Elizabeth (Rani) age around 25-30, was arrived in her private plane (Travels bus ) & unfortunately she was sharing the Double seat out of that one was occupied by Raja.

Raja was innocent, well behaved & well mannered guy that’s what I can say, as when he was talking to Rani he was calling her “Mam”. But vice-versa Rani was brainless, ill mentality & worst Female specie that’s what I can say. After entering Rani saw that Double seat is shared by Raja & she got shocked. Rani started shouting loudly people around were sleeping, hearing noise, they woke up & looking towards them. Rani’s was was shouting saying “she cant share double seat with Raja as he is Male”. Ok understood valid point as well but she started creating noise & shouting like Raja has done some great mistake(like wife files false 498a). Seeing Rani shouting attender came to see what going on? Then he understood the problem & he called his supervisor till then I was silent & watching everything as I was not having single clue to defend Raja. When attender was talking over phone with supervisor Rani shouted on him “why can’t you put on speaker so that everyone can hear?”  Attender shakes his head & put the phone on speaker. Problem raised because people who are having single seat none of them was ready to spare their it for this lady & sharing the Double seat with Raja.

Actually when online reservations done for travels it never shows that Double seats is shared by which Gender consider if  A&B are attached Double seat, A is booked by Male & B is booked by Female then reservation should not happen if it’s done by 2 different person. I gave that as my strong feedback for travels.

Lets come back to real story, Supervisor informed to attender (like HC gives judgment in favor of 498a girl though husband didn’t do anything wrong) check if Raja booked his ticket after Rani then tell him to get down & wait on same pick-up point AC Volvo seating bus is coming. Somewhat judgment accepted by both (like McD) & Rani got temporary relief (like interim maintenance awarded without evidences). But many questions were popped in my mind.

1)      Why Raja should vacate the seat for Rani?

2)      Why Rani treated as some gr8 personality? Though no one is wrong here.

3)      Why Raja should travel in semi sleeper bus though he paid for Sleeper coach?

4)      Why Rani should get benefit of doubt?

Attender checked the list & result was more confusing actually Raja reserved the seat 2 days before Rani reserved. Again panic situation but being at very primary level MRA I took this opportunity to shout on Rani(Abala Nari). After some lecture she stopped shouting & calm down then she started requesting attender (Can you please make someone to share this double seat? ) said sorry for whatever she has done.

Seeing I gave helping hand to Raja, Raja got some confidence then myself & Raja started scolding the supervisor on phone. We both were fighting like MRA’s to get Raja’s respect back we were tracing on same point as she has reserved seat followed by Raja she should get down & come by semi sleeper bus. Finally Supervisor said sorry & he talk to Raja without speaker “Sir, I’m really very sorry but problem is if we don’t consider the Female though she is wrong many problem’s will pop up as she is women so to avoid it I said so”. Like some helpless judge though he knows husband is innocent he has to ask for Evidences as Law give full support to Abala Nari irrespective of she is having criminal mind.

Is this not true?

–          Supervisor is like helpless bounded judge.

–          Rani who cry saying Abala Nari but at the end everyone come to know she is nothing but having criminal mind.

–          Raja innocent Husband or harassed male who need to prove that he innocent.

Guys think on this topic feminism becoming like Gunda-gardi. How safe Indian Male’s are?

IrBM – Intermediate Range Ballistic Missile

India successfully launched Agni 5 missile on April 19^th 2012. Agni 5 is the most potent weapon in the Indian arsenal and not just because it can nuke China. Agni 5 can also launch a satellite. Thus in wartime, if an enemy destroys Indian military satellites, a satellite equipped Agni 5 on standby could replace at least one of the military satellites (for communication or reconnaissance) in a few hours. http://tinyurl.com/ct7z2yq

So now let’s come back to current IrBM -Irretrievable breakdown of marriage its under development /construction courtesy few feminists of India & Honorable Politicians of Indian country.  One should term the proposed IrBM in parliament as “Intermediate Range Ballistic Missile” nothing wrong in it.

Intermediate Range Ballistic Missile is developed considering safety & security of Indians. Irretrievable breakdown of marriage is getting developed for safety & security of Abala Nari. Not sure How long we will be crying to get justice for Abala nari under the Feminism Flag? It’s not only having side effects on Indian Marriage system but forcing wife to misuse laws & creating many problems like single parenting, Breakdown of Marriage, abala nari became sabala to misuse laws. Still feminists are not happy with existing laws so they pushed government to put IrBM in front of parliament.

Already we do have so many laws like 498a, DVact which are widely getting misused by wife to harass husband & his family. HC is also worried as marriages are getting ruined by wife’s parents for their greed http://tinyurl.com/csrfspo but still neither government nor feminists worry about same. Instead of proposing revision in 498a & DvAct to avoid law misuse by proposing to make it Gender neutral & punishment for Guilty wife & her parents, Feminists are dreaming to go for IrBM.

Question here why do need IrBM?

1)    Abala Nari is already Sabala as wife can claim maintanence under crpc 125 & HMA24 though husband is not wrong.

2)    If Divorce filled by wife court make sure that marriage is getting dissolved within short time but same if Husband files sometimes it takes age’s to divorce. When Wife files divorce argument will be she is stressed & sick of DV, but when Husband files court always says that by delaying Divorce we are trying to save Marriage. Is it not controversial?

3)    Abala Nari is well educated she can earn by herself, is she really dependent on her husband?

4)    Abala nari has all rights to ask share from her parents property same supported by Law but still why feminist & wife needs share from husband’s property?

5)    During Divorce & maintanence case Kid’s are used as weapon’s to extort more money from husband.

6)    To support Abala nari why feminist’s cant propose Government to have more “shelter houses”  or “Swadhar Gruha” ? Why husbands are treated as ATM machine to extort money?

7)    Why husband should bare expenses for the crime which he didn’t do? Why husband should pay alimony when wife desert husbands life for greed of money under her parents influence.

8)    498a alert by HC saying widely misused http://tinyurl.com/bo8sbcy why feminist dont bother to propose revisions to avoide it?

There are so many questions will be popping up in everyone’s mind.

The family was the basic unit of social organization in ancient India. The family at that time was unusually a joint family. The rite of Sraddha played an important part in binding the members from the common ancestors. Usually the eldest male member was the head of the house and administered joint property.

Nowadays under the feminism flag few feminists are proposing laws which are specifically meant for Wife & she is the only one who considered as women in this country. Where in India Wife & her parents running marriages then why laws sues the husband & his family members for the crime which didn’t happen. Just one simple complaint of wife male’s husband & his whole family Criminal for same Husband have to prove that he is innocent. Though he proves himself innocent law don’t give any support to take action against as penalty against Wife & her family who spoiled the marriage & who made husband & his family to suffer for more than 10+ years.

What is IrBM?

1)      50% share in husband’s property, which he earned before & after the marriage including the ancestral property. Women who was not good wife for husband, not good daughter-in-law for husband’s family & relative why should she enjoy the property of husband’s ancestral?

2)      Easy divorce – why Indian society needs easy divorce, are we making divorce so easy like ordering pizza? Who will be responsible for the kid’s single parenting issue? Why should kid suffer for his/her mom & her parent’s greed of money?

Now feminists or women’s supporters kindly excuse & don’t give me reason of DV against wife even High Court & Supreme court is more concerned about the law misuse increase ur knowledge by seeing following links –

1)      High court alert on 498a http://tinyurl.com/bo8sbcy

2)      1/3^rd of complaints about domestic violence aginst men’s are false http://tinyurl.com/cnka4us

3)      Hindu Marriage act is home-breaker http://tinyurl.com/bssgs97

4)      Men’s are the oppressed gender http://tinyurl.com/ch4wu6q

5)      Amend dowry law to stop misuse http://tinyurl.com/cdtxhh7

 There are so many such cases where all husbands are worried but not wife or her family as Law is supporting Feminism. Sometime I feel like saying feminism is Talibanism. Women’s are more empowered than their need & few negative points like no action against false cases, laws are gender biased making misuse of these laws handy.

Now everyone have to come forward & think do they really need “Intermediate Range Ballistic Missile” or “Irretrievable breakdown of marriage” in their premises to destroy your family peace. If you answer No then raise your voice against this Feminist’s talibanism to support Gender Equality & single parenting problems.

Laws are made to get justice not to harass husband & his family & to extort money. Stop this law misuse by creating law awareness socially.

Think one again do you really need “Intermediate Range Ballistic Missile”

Do you really need “Intermediate Range Ballistic Missile”