This is my story who is falsely accused in 498a case by my bitter-half as I was not following words coming out from my wife & her parents mouth, I didn’t realize if I don’t obey the orders from bitter half & her parents I will be gifted with 498a package. For people who are not aware of 498a law, 498a is law which was established to save women’s from Dowry Harassment by India. If we really look around compare to use of 498a Law wide misuse is happening. 498a became weapon for Women’s to harass & torture husband & his family. Same law or NCW support one Daughter-in-law as woman, but Mother & sister of Husband is not considered as woman, I don’t know what to say about this? Anyway it’s all Indian males fate to face & fight against this legal terrorism. Day by day 498a case rate & misuse is increasing rapidly, Males in India are finding easy option to avoid this 498a & that’s nothing but suicide. Every 10 mints 1 Indian married male is going for suicide. Don’t forget to think about 498a & its wide misuse, let’s come out of this & have fun some fun time with 498 J
It was a nice cloudy day, I was in a jolly mood. I entered office, signed in like any other normal day. I entered my cube and was checking mails, when as usual my friends called me for coffee. We were chatting in cafeteria when the office boy came into the cafeteria searching for me.
He said few people are waiting for me in Atlas conf. room. I asked who it was but he was not aware of it. He said they came from some social organization. I was surprised to hear that news. Now it was time for me to check out who those people were. Having many doubts in mind I was moving towards the room.
I was just entering the conference room, when the person standing outside the conf room asked my name.
As I entered the room, person standing outside checked the list & suddenly shouted 498 case. I was surprised to hear 498 case, lot of thoughts were coming in mind. How come suddenly this happened? I didn’t expect it will happen so soon.
Generally my other room partner’s avoid seeing one of my roommates face in the morning, many times they have informed me not to see him in the morningJ. This morning when I woke up he wish me “Good Morning” suddenly I remembered all this. I was cursing myself because I saw him in the morning. Then I was just thinking what to do now? How to inform my dad? How to have conversation with lawyer? What to reply if these guys ask any questions?
Three men were sitting inside the conf room, None were in uniform but physically all were looking like Police Men. One of them stared at me like angry bull ready to hit me, other person didn’t even bother to look at me as he was sorting out papers but one person welcomed me when I moved towards table.
Good Morning Sir!!!
I was surprised to hear that, and then he offered me a chair. I was about to sit, he mumbled 498 case paper’s. He got those papers in hand & he said “Sir, first of all we are thankful to you for coming forward & giving us your helping hands.” I thought like this normal routine 498a primary phase, instead of calling me to Police station they have come here to get the details & later Charge sheet with other process. I felt like as I didn’t have word neither with my dad nor my lawyer so it’s better to behave like I’m co-operating them but not disclosing any facts what ‘s plan of action.
Person who was sorting out papers gave 2 pages to the person who was talking to me.
Oh great!!! 498 saraswati case…
Again I got doubts 498a filled by wife is fine but my wife’s name is not saraswati.
He asked “since how long you are here, sir!!!”
Since one year.
Since how long you are helping to others.
This question was very much confusing…
He said “Because of few people like you we are surviving & we are able to deliver our services”.
I thought this is another way of asking for money & punching on my face without raising hands.
He was keep talking & asking questions then I wanted to get rid of this.
So I asked who is saraswati? I don’t even know her. Then why & how she filled case?
Hearing this person was confused. Seeing his face I felt like I asked him wrong question which he was not at all expecting from me.
He said “sir, you forgot!!!”
Yes, sir!!! It’s our fault. When you provide money we don’t give any sort details that whom you are going to help. Actually we are also not aware who is seeking help so we also cant share any details just like that.
I felt like hitting that guy or just moving out of the room…
He started “Sir actually during last July time frame you have donated money, rite?”
I could not recollect which month but yes last year I have donated money…
Yes Sir, that money we utilized towards kids education & end of July or August only we will come to know which all students needs money for their education. So we didn’t inform in advance.
He gave me 2 pages & he said Kid is from Saraswati Vidya Mandir & scored 498 out of 600 J.
I got my answer who is saraswati & why she filled 498 J
I realized 498a is nothing it is just matter of tension & stress.
If you falsely implicated in 498a cases then don’t worry at all as no one can touch you. If you suspect 498a on you then start increasing your legal knowledge, there are many laws or ways just because you are not aware you need to run around & suffer like anything. Just because you are not aware of process including legal practitioners all will try to extort money from you & your bitter half will be enjoying seeing the trouble you are facing. So be brave stand up & get ready to fight against all these feminized & biased laws…..
So guys enjoy each & every moment of your life at full extent, try to find out Happy moments to keep you cheerful & happy…….
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