Today, when GoM (Group of Ministers) passed the IrBM (irretrievable breakdown of marriage) & soon it will be publicly given to women called wife to misuse widely. Yes, I’m proud to say I’m against the IrBM. One of my blog is already shared & liked by many, today I’m again taking this Golden opportunity to talk about IrBM but not as husband I’m taking this honor to put my thoughts as Father. Question is still same…
Why do we need IrBM?
IrBM gives privilege to call it as “No fault divorce”, can we think really, how many times Husbands goes for divorce? Nowadays hardly any man goes for Divorce that too when Wife files baseless & false cases just to cause Troubles & mental harassment to Husband & his Family. Obviously, after so much harassment & defamation I don’t think anyone will bother to accept their bitter half again in life, who can cause trouble or file false case against husband anytime in future. Neither Wife nor court assures that wife will not file false cases again.
Coming to the point when wife, her parents & greed of money results in “Divorce” to enter in Indian husbands life, then why IrBM to safeguard wife’s life or award of more money from husband in terms of alimony that too when husband is no where responsible for any act which caused “Divorce”.
IrBM is well known & great home-breaker draconian law getting implemented by politicians & forced by Indian Feminists.
Why such lady should get awarded with 50% of husband’s property? It includes not only property earned by husband but ancestral property as well.
Under IrBM women’s shouting saying, Wife needs 50% alimony because she is unpaid worker in home. I feel women’s are not aware what one Husband is doing? Husband is not only taking care of basic needs of wife & whole family but also he always keep trying to give all luxury & comfort which he can give. Husband keeps running around hospitals when wife gets pregnant till delivery, once delivery happens not only for wife later for kid as well. Each & every moment Father is always is there 
with kid, when kid gets sick he will be the one who spends sleepless nights, though he worked for whole day in office. If any emergency he will be the one knocking doctor’s door in midnight. He will be the one who will try to give class-1 education to child. Indian males Journey is never ending by the time he enjoy life as Husband, as a father he gets more responsibility which he follow very promptly. Don’t forget “Behind every good kid there is a great DAD…”
Why IrBM don’t talk anything about child custody when No Fault Divorce happen? Why IrBM don’t allow husband to deny Divorce?
Let’s try to analyze the IrBM considering Indian male as Father. In normal Divorce case “why Divorce happens already explained?” 100% of the cases child custody awarded to Mother as natural guardian.
Though Divorce is “contested Divorce” or “Mutual Divorce” child is with Wife, after divorce if she gets remarry & husband did not marry, child never given back to husband considering him as Father. Does that means Indian Males are Sperm Donours? So that whenever Wife wants she can have kid with husband & snatch away the kid, when she don’t need relation with husband? Funny part is, as Father, husband always needs to pay maintenance towards kid even if wife remarry, when Law needs Father to pay maintenance for kid then why not father has rights to talk to kid or why father don’t have rights to met his own kid? Instead of proposing Draconian IrBM can’t we modify or propose changes in Child custody, so that father gets all rights to enjoy life with his own kid?
If husband wants to meet or visit kid, there are so many processes involved, First of all Husband needs to file for Visitation rights. Though husband gets the visitation rights still it’s difficult to see kid as court don’t give any order to Mother to make it possible, she can deny it during husband visits. There are so many processes involved that I feel one more blog can be written on “Difficulties in Child Custody”. No one bother about speedy hearings of “Child custody”
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Rite now, I can say, by having this IrBM are we not forcing the kid in single parenting valley like no fault divorce, no fault single parenting forced on kid? Why IrBM spoiling kid’s life from getting fathers love? This IrBM don’t give child a normal life, stop kid from “forced No fault single parenting”.
Thanks for understanding Father’s feelings, for saying & co-operating with us “ROLLBACK IRBM”….
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